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What do you "do"?

Like most people, I get asked this question often, and my reply is often met with more questions followed by even more questions, because if you aren't in the publishing industry, you usually don't know how it really works. Since my husband referred to me as a "publisher" the other day, I figured it was time to set the record straight, for him, as well as for my friends that may just be pretending to know what exactly I "do" everyday.

Right now, I'm the Sales & Marketing Director for an academic university press that publishes titles related to Louisiana history and culture. By "publish," I mean we conceptualize them, design them, distribute them, sale them, promote them, make money from them. Usually when I say I work for a publisher, people think I mean a printer. Not the same thing! Publishers are not printing presses. We don't have big machines in the back that print and bind our books…that is done off-site at actual printers (and I'm not talking Kinko's here).

I have a degree in public relations and started out working for a Christian book publisher called Howard Books in West Monroe, LA (which was eventually bought out by Simon & Schuster not quite three years into my tenure there). I was publicist (and then senior publicist) there for almost six years. Any time I told a non-book industry person that I was a publicist, I would get the question, "what is a publicist," and I always felt like I should have some textbook definition memorized for those instances. But, really, the textbook definition is pretty lame and boring, and doesn't really tell you anything about the job, so I'll spare you and not give you the definition here. Basically, though, book publicists are in charge of getting publicity for a book and its author in the form of setting up book signings—or even media tours to cities across the U.S., getting reviews/interviews in print media (such as magazines or newspapers), setting up radio and TV interviews for the author, even—now days—getting bloggers to blog about or review the book. It sounds simple, but great results (such as getting an author on Oprah or the Today Show and ending up with a New York Times Bestseller) are hard to achieve and require having good relationships with media contacts.

Being a publicist is fun sometimes, like when you get to meet Oprah or Matt Lauer and sit in their green rooms or when the book you are working on lands on the NYT Bestseller List, but the stress level can be out of this world. The demand for awesome publicity hits from "the bosses" puts a lot of pressure on you, and try as you may, you can't make big TV interviews or magazine articles happen if the producer or the editor on the other end isn't interested! Sometimes when the stress just seemed like too much to bear and that the perks of the job just weren't worth it, I would daydream about working for a small, independent publisher that wasn't so concerned with their bottom line and with selling millions…who hadn't lost sight of why they went into publishing in the first place—for the love of books—and who would be happy, oh, so happy, just to have a publicist that got their authors and titles small, regional media. That was the kind of place I wanted to work…where pressure and CEOs and the clamor to publish the next "big book" didn't exist…where the "little guys" mattered (because I always preferred working with the first-time authors or those who knew they were never going to be comparable to Stephen King because they never had inflated egos that I had to deal with and they were happy with any media you got them!). Aww…if only such a place existed!

But, to my surprise, my daydream became a reality (mostly) and I landed where I am now. I wear a ton of hats here, though, but because the workload is smaller, it's manageable. (I went from working on 60 titles a year to working on 8-10 titles a year.) As the Sales & Marketing Director, I am in charge of: sales, which includes selling titles into our accounts, growing our list of accounts, distribution/shipping to our accounts, as well as direct sales to our customers, informing them of all our new titles and specials and managing our Web site and Facebook page; marketing, which includes special event planning and advertising; publicity, which includes sending out review copies to the media, booking interviews, etc.; and then I also handle all our business management, which includes invoicing, collections, and author royalties. And because I spent my first six months at Howard Books as a copyeditor and learned Chicago Manual of Style, I also read and copyedit every title we publish. (Although you will find mistakes on my blog posts since I don't copyedit it as intensely as I would a book!) And…because there are only two of us who are full-time staff, we pretty much join heads and decide on titles, cover concepts, prices, release dates, etc.

So, now you know what I "do"! And now that I've typed all that out and realized just how much I do, I think I'm going to demand a pay raise now!

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For weeks now, there has been this black door set up on display next to the elevators in UL's library. It's black and in bright blue are the words: Spread the Word to End the Word. And all over this door (front and back) are signatures in white and silver. Since I work on the third floor of the library, I've been walking past this door multiple times a day and I've been completely baffled by what it means, trying to figure out what word they are trying to stop the use of...and wondering if the actual door had anything to do with that word. I had pretty much given up on figuring out what it meant...until I had a lightbulb moment today (and Google confirmed it for me). You may have already figured it out, but apparently I'm a little slow on the uptake!

Earlier today, I was reading the newest blog post by a well-known blogger, Kelle Hampton. Today is World Down Syndrome Awareness Day and Kelle has a baby with Down Syndrome. I don't remember how I found Kelle's website, but I encourage you to read the birth story of her daughter, Nella (click here to read). You will cry...you will ugly cry...so be forewarned! In her post today, Kelle was talking about the word "retarded" and how sensitive she has become to the word. That's when I had my lightbulb moment and Googled "spread the word to end the word" to see if that word was indeed the "word" I'd been grasping for this whole month.

I don't think I ever use this word (I say "think" because I don't remember using it since probably middle school) but I know, like Kelle says in her blog post, that it's easy to throw the word out there--in a non-demeaning way--when you do something without thinking. You may not use the word to describe a person with mental disabilities, but I think it's important to just not use the word at all...even if you are calling yourself that. So, I encourage you to think before you speak and to end the word with yourself. Don't spread it to the next generation!

To read Kelle's full blog post for today, click here.
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Happy first weekend of Spring! Yay! SO glad Spring has sprung and I'm sure you are too. I love Spring, but unfortunately, Spring doesn't really last long around here and it was already bordering on hot today, but I'm glad the cold weather is behind us (although, I'm positive I will be begging for it by the end of May)!

The sun was bright today and shining in Juliette's face, but I wanted to get a picture by these gorgeous flowers by our apartment building. Maybe I can get a better picture before they die!

Juliette had dance pictures this morning, so we were up early primping! Here she is before we left in the outfit they took their class picture in. This outfit is for their "detective" song and they have hats that go with it (and I think magnifying glasses too). This is my least favorite of her three recital (they call it "revue") costumes, but I forgot to bring the camera with me to take any more pictures. It was definitely a mad house in the "changing room" with all the little girls and moms and all the costume changes to get pictures made. Thankfully, they moved us through pretty quickly and we were home by lunch time. (And had time to play outside, go to the park, and even take a nap today!)

This is the outfit they'll be wearing for their tap routine.

A close-up of Juliette with her make-up on. (She gets SO excited about putting it on!) We could do their hair however we wanted, so I opted to leave it down since I love her curls so much!
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I love reading! I mean, REALLY, REALLY love it! I HAVE to have a book to read or I feel a little lost. Back last year, I was doing some data entry on the computer four nights a week for a guy I knew from my Howard Books days and I didn't have the time to read. I tried listening to an audio book at one point, but it just wasn't the same. Needless to say, I sorely missed reading during that time, and I immediately hightailed it to the library as soon as I quit that little night gig. I used to be the type that didn't really think twice about buying books. If I wanted to read it, I bought it. Since we've moved to Lafayette, though, and have to be more frugal, I've wised up about the incredible free resource that is at my disposal--the public library. (Not that I wasn't aware of it before, I just never utilized it like I do now.) And, because I can log-in, search their catalog, and request books online, it just makes it so convenient--especially if my hubby goes and picks them up for me! :)

What has been incredibly tempting (and a tad addicting), though, is Matt's e-reader that he bought with his Christmas money--a Nook Color. You can search for titles and download free samples, however, it's usually around ten bucks to buy the book on there. I have only bought one since he got it and have mostly been using it to download the free samples and make my "library list." However, the last time we went to the library, we discovered that you can "check out" (download) free e-books that you only get to keep for 2 weeks, so I got really excited about that. But, not every book I want to read is available as an e-book from the library, and let's face it, although an e-reader is super convenient, sometimes I just want the real book in my hand. (And, I just have to say, that whoever is the chick-lit buyer for Target, does a great job. If I'm out of books to read, I always go browse that section and then jot down titles so I can check them out at the library. Sometimes I buy one, you know, to support that section since it's a great resource to me--and because I feel guilty for the one-sided relationship I seem to have with it...always getting, never giving!)

Sometimes, though, I fall in a rut and have a hard time finding good books, so I thought I'd share some recent good reads I've come across as well as some of my favorites (those books that just stuck with me) in case you are on the search for a new read.

The Harry Potter series

Seriously, why did no one tell me how good these were? Matt, on a whim, bought the first two books for a dollar each at the library (they have a section where they sell used books). I scoffed at them (and him) and basically called them childish. Then, I ran out of books to read, picked the first one up, "just to see how lame it was" and got sucked in...movies and all. January 2011 will now be known as the month that I read and watched every Harry Potter book and movie, and then felt so sad when it was all over. So, I realize I was probably the only person left on Earth (besides Matt) who hadn't read this series, but in case you haven't, carve out a month and check them out from the library. And, you might want to clear your social calendar for that month as well, because you'll want to spend any free moment you have with Harry Potter.


Winter Garden by Kristin Hannah

Most of Kristin Hannah's books are good, but this one is probably the best because it was based on real events involving war in Russia. Here's a review from Amazon. You might not be interested in something involving history (and I typically shy away from those books as well), but I promise you, it's a great book: The Whitson family is rocked by the sudden death of patriarch Evan, a warm, loving man who doted on his two adult daughters, Meredith and Nina, and his reserved Russian wife, Anya. Meredith, who runs the family business, and Nina, a photojournalist whose job takes her to war zones around the world, have never been able to connect with their cold, forbidding mother. When Anya begins to act strangely, Meredith thinks she belongs in a nursing home, but Nina decides to try to fulfill her father’s dying wish and get her mother to tell her and Meredith the elaborate fairy tales she used to share with them. Anya is initially reluctant, but once she begins, Nina realizes these tales are actually the story of Anya’s life in Stalinist Leningrad. Meredith and Nina decide to attempt to uncover the truth about their mother’s tragic past in the hope of understanding her, and themselves. Though the novel starts off fairly maudlin, it evolves into a gripping read, although it’s a tearjerker.


The Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls

This book made me mad...mad at the parents. And rightfully mad, because it is Jeannette's memoir of her childhood growing up with an alcoholic father and a hippy mother who never held jobs for very long. The Glass Castle tells her story of growing up practically homeless and often starving with her three other siblings and how they all were able to escape a life of poverty. I read this a few weeks ago and as a parent, it just infuriates me that they were raised this way in the 1970s and 80s. And, although it angered me, I still recommend reading it for the incredible view Jeannette gives into the lives of children living in poverty. You will feel heartbreak for the children and anger at the parents and you will be thrilled to see Jeannette and her siblings rise above it all. (If you do read it, or have already read it, leave a comment on this post telling me what you thought about it. I'd love to discuss!)


My Sister's Keeper by Jodi Picoult

A lot of Jodi Picoult's books deal with big issues or hard topics, which often lead to them being good books, but I've yet to find one of her books that I liked as well as this one. You may have seen the movie (that had a different ending from the book--shame on Hollywood!), but I still encourage you to read the book. Books are almost always better than their movies, and this one you need to read to see the true ending.


Any book by Nicholas Sparks

I pretty much like them all! Even if you've seen some of the movies, still read the books. The biggest tearjerker of them all: The Last Song. Banish Miley Cyrus and her poor acting (if you've seen the movie) from your head and read it. They didn't include a lot of the scenes from the book and no movie can really convey the internal thoughts and emotions as well as the book can.


James Patterson's chick-lit books

I like his murder mystery books just as well, but I really like it when he writes the girly ones. I'll forever remember the details of Suzanne's Diary for Nicholas (it's an oldie, but a goodie) and I recently read Sundays at Tiffany's and loved it as well. Hint: It's about a girl and her imaginary friend!


Proof by Bill Bright

This book was one of the first fiction books that I worked on at Howard Books. I'm not crazy about Christian fiction. I know that seems odd for me to say that, considering I worked in the industry for six years, but I don't like the fact that so many Christian fiction books seem to beat the Bible on your head. I especially dislike the ones that center around women who seem to be Stepford Wife models of Christianity--you know the kind...every paragraph involves them praying, every thought that runs through their internal dialogue is nice and kind, every word they say to anyone is super sweet and loving. No one--even Christians--are like that 24/7. I'm sure there are plenty Christian fiction books out there that "keep it real," though, so feel free to leave some suggestions in the comments if you have any that might fit my criteria...otherwise, I shy away from them. So, anyway, about this book. I'm not recommending it because of my involvement with it. I'm recommending it because it's really, really good. Here's the Amazon description (that I may or may not have helped write...I can't remember): When his daughter experiences a life-changing conversion to Christianity, a celebrated New York attorney takes the Holy Spirit to court in an attempt to win her back. With a hand-picked jury and a sympathetic judge, the atheistic attorney sues the church in which his daughter was saved, accusing them of teaching fictional religious concepts that will undermine America. In a dramatic courtroom thriller, a young defense attorney -- boyfriend to the daughter and former intern to the celebrated lawyer -- defends the church by attempting to prove the Holy Spirit exists, only to discover that the Holy Spirit is fully capable of proving himself.


Sophie Kinsella non-Shopaholic books

I tried to get into the Shopaholic books, but I just couldn't. However, I love Sophie Kinsella's other titles and I love that they are more light-hearted with some quirky subject matters, such as Remember Me? (amnesia), Can You Keep a Secret? (keeping secrets--kinda obvious, huh?), The Undomestic Goddess (pretending to be someone else) and Twenties Girl (having a ghost that just won't go away).


Life As I Know It by Melanie Rose

Another quirky subject matter about a girl who is struck by lightning, but it ends deeper than you expect. Here's an Amazon review: In Brit Rose's pleasant debut, single career girl Jessica Taylor experiences love at first sight shortly before being struck by lightning. She awakens in the hospital in the body of Lauren Richardson, an unhappily married, materialistic mother of four who was also hit by lightning. While in Lauren's body, Jessica bonds with Lauren's neglected children and with Lauren's down-to-earth sister, Karen, who has sensed the change in her sister from the very start. After Jessica confides in Karen, the two attempt to make sense of why the switch happened. Rose's narrative initially uses all the old chestnuts of chick lit, pitting the life of a career girl against married motherhood; finding the perfect guy at the wrong time; the dubious current love interest (in this case, Lauren's questionable husband). As the story progresses, Rose's novel evolves into a statement about the pitfalls women encounter and the deals they make with themselves in order to make life livable. Rose's light tone packs a punch as the decidedly somber ending looms, taking the story to a foreseeable but still bittersweet conclusion.

I could go on and on, but I think that is plenty to share with you today. I may do this again another time, as I've just put about 4 books on hold at the library!! Feel free to share your favorites in the comments.

Happy Reading!


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These are just some random pictures that have been hanging out on the camera, so I thought I'd share since I finally uploaded them to the computer today.

Juliette has dance pictures this Sunday, so a while back I did a make-up practice run. She was incredibly excited about getting to wear make-up and I let her keep it on all day since we weren't going anywhere. See those eyelashes...is it wrong to be jealous of my child's eyelashes?


I spent Valentine's Day weekend on the couch with the flu, but thankfully I had planned ahead and made this little shirt for Juliette to wear that day. I oftentimes will browse the shirts on Etsy.com to get ideas on what to do for her and this was one of them. You can't really tell in this picture, but there is a heart coming out of the elephant's trunk as well. (Those pink and red striped pants went with another outfit that we already had. We just got lucky that they were V-day colors.)
Juliette had her first dentist appointment back in February. Technically, she should have already been going to the dentist for at least a year now, but UL's dental insurance is sky-high (if I want it, I have to pay 100% of the premiums and even then it doesn't pay well) so I had put it off since we have to pay out of pocket. She was a little nervous, but the dental hygienist was awesome and she got to join the "No Cavity Kids Club." They also gave us a little x-ray of her teeth for our scrapbook.


Lastly, you can't live in Lafayette, a block off the main parade route, and not attend a Mardi Gras parade (or 5). This is a picture of Juliette and me after we came back home with our loot from the first parade. Juliette racked up with stuffed animals and toys, not to mention the usual beads. We really enjoyed going to the parades and hope that next year someone (anyone?) will come join us!

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This summer will mark two years that we have been in Lafayette. And it will mark two years that we have gone without a real church home. Two years without a Sunday School class. And, for me, two years without one real friendship in this town (because I work practically by myself and would only have the opportunity to meet new friends at church).

You might be thinking: Why haven't you been going to church. Oh, but we have been! Then, what's the problem? The problem is with the churches we've been attending. The problem is that we can't find a church that we really just love. The problem is that I don't think I should have to "settle" for a church and pray to be content there like I have been for the past year and a half. The problem is that I'm homesick for my old church and my old church friends...

I was driving home from a weekend visit with my parents (Juliette was with me) late yesterday afternoon and about three blocks from home, I heard two men on the radio (I had been scanning through the stations) talking about how hard it is to find a new church when you move. One of the guys said that they found that it's even more difficult to find a new church when you've come from a church that you loved. You immediately compare every church you attend to that one and the fact of the matter is that you aren't going to be able to find a duplicate of that church. My head knows that, but my heart just wants what we used to have.

In 2004, we started attending First Baptist Church in West Monroe, LA. I had heard great things about the pastor at that time, and I knew they had a contemporary worship service, so I really wanted to try it out. (Although Matt is more of a grandpa in his worship preferences and prefers the classic hymns.) After a few months, we decided to try out a Life Group that one of Matt's co-workers taught, and I immediately felt at home. Everyone was friendly, everyone was in the same life stage as us (young married with no children) and in no time at all, we felt like we had known them forever. I became friends with a lot of the girls and before long, we all started having babies and in what felt like a blink of an eye, almost 5 years had passed and without trying we had a "history" with them. Our kids were at the same daycare, or we were in the same Bunco group, or our kids went to Kindermusik together...it was wonderful. It was wonderful for a girl who came to college without any of her friends, who made new friends in college, and then whose new friends moved away. First West (although it had/has it's fault) was exactly what I needed, when I needed it...spiritually and emotionally.

Having been raised in North Louisiana, though, I naively thought that any large Baptist church (as First West was) would still provide the same worship experience...would still give me what I needed spiritually. And, I'm sure that is the case in most other Southern cities...I'm positive that is the case, but drive south of Alexandria and it's not true. At least, not for us.

South Louisiana is predominantly Catholic. In Lafayette, there are really only two large Baptist churches. TWO. 1-2. That is it. When we first moved here, we knew what the denominational make-up of South Louisiana was and knew that Baptist churches were probably going to be few and far between. I never thought, though, that I would be left wanting more options.

When we first moved to town, we visited First Baptist Lafayette's contemporary service. We didn't go back. The music made me feel like I was watching a concert, the songs weren't any praise songs I had heard at First West or on Christian radio (and in fact, they didn't even really resemble praise songs, making them hard to sing along with) and there were flashing colored lights (weird!). The sanctuary was dark most of the time. (I just have to interject here and say, What is up with turning the lights down? It just makes me feel depressed!) The preacher was okay, but his sermon was more of a verse-by-verse dissection of a book of the Bible that apparently he'd been preaching on for a while. It reminded me more of a Bible study or maybe a Sunday night service. There were no life applications to it and I just felt completely sad and disappointed about the entire service, because I had come expecting big things.

So, church 1 of 2 was a no-go, and so, we went across town to East Bayou Baptist Church. The music was better there, but still not what we were used to. The preacher was somewhat better...more energetic...but what we LOVED was the preschool area. They have a small stage area (it's not an actual stage) and it is always decorated in a theme for whatever the lesson is that day. There is a preschool worship leader and they lead them in singing and then act out the Bible story (complete with costumes) and Juliette just loves it. When we first picked her up, she told us what she learned that day and started singing the songs in the car on the way home. She'd never done that at First West, so we were happy that she had gotten so much out of it and that East Bayou is so dedicated to giving the itty, bitty kids just as much of a worship experience as the adults. The thing about East Bayou, though, is that they don't have Sunday School. The church is only about 20-30 years old and was gradually built and added on to (like most growing churches). However, because East Bayou focuses so much on the worship services (they have something like 7-10 of them going on simultaneously on Sunday mornings: preschool, kids--divided in age groups--teens, a service in the cafe, family room, the main worship area, etc.), there isn't room for Sunday School classes (because they need the room for all those worship services). To remedy the solution, they have small groups in homes that meet at various times throughout the week, so we decided to give the small groups a try. The first small group they put us in met after church on Sundays. I had requested a small group of couples that had kids. This was a mixed small group and no one had kids. That kinda annoyed me that the small group leader didn't pay enough attention to my request. Everyone was really nice in the group, but it wasn't a good fit because of the kid thing, so I went back and asked for another group to try, this time making sure the small group leader understood what I was requesting. That time we landed in a group that just made us feel completely out-of-their-league. Everyone was friendly and they never acted like they were better than us, but each week, the houses that we went to (they met at different ones each week) got bigger, and bigger, (and in areas where I knew the home costs were at least 300k or more). Pretty much everyone was stay-at-home-moms and they were pregnant or had babies on their hips and they seemed to only talk about babies. For someone, like me, who has had to put the baby thing on hold and is a working mom, I just felt out of place. And, it is HARD, extremely hard, to live in a 2-bedroom, student-housing apartment and sit in those gorgeous, new homes and not compare and just feel really crappy about your circumstances. So, we attended East Bayou for about a 1 1/2 years for Juliette's sake...because she was learning and loving it, but didn't attend a small group. I just gave up on finding a small group and didn't ask for another one to try. At some points, the preacher's sermons would be extremely simplistic...the kind of sermon you would preach to a new believer or someone new to church that left us wanting something deeper. I joined a women's Bible Study that meets twice a month, and I really liked it, but I'm the only one with a child. It's a mix of singles and marrieds and I really like the group of girls, but any kind of friendship we have doesn't go beyond Facebook. Everyone there seems to have friendships that extend beyond Bible Study, so although I like the girls involved, I often just leave there feeling more homesick for the friends I have back home.

Matt and I had grown weary of not having something in the form of Sunday School and the fellowship that goes along with it, though, and decided to give First Baptist another try. Quite possibly, we thought, we had just visited them on an off-day. In January, we went back to First Baptist and went to just worship. The music was more praise songs, the preaching was better--with life applications--and it seemed we really had visited at an off-time the first time around. So, we decided to visit Sunday School. The Young Adults meet as a whole for announcements and prayer first and then break off into classes based on your children's ages. We were put in the 4-10 yr. old class, but told we could go anywhere we wanted if that one didn't seem to fit us. The first Sunday was what you would expect--friendliness from the leaders, smiles from some of the other members, but no chit-chat. We realized when we walked in that we actually knew the young adult leader and his wife, Ron and Michelle--their daughter goes to preschool with Juliette. So, it was incredibly nice to have a somewhat familiar face there. (We've only ever seen them a few times, but it helped to have that connection.) We felt more positive leaving there that Sunday about our future church home. It also helped for us to find out that they took the preschoolers to a worship time as well. The next Sunday, we decided to go back to Sunday School. We walked in a little late and announcements had already started. When we got to our class, no one said anything to us. The leader might have said "Hi," but the rest of the room acted as if we were invisible. When class was over, while others were chit-chatting, we were ignored. I just couldn't help but think that it would have never been that way at First West. Most of our old Sunday School class would have went out of their way to make sure we felt welcomed, regardless of whether they were in a leadership position or not.

So, here we stand, unhappy with certain things at both churches. I've had people suggest to me that we try a non-denominational church, but it's hard sometimes to really decipher how their beliefs align with ours. I wish there was a happy little ending that involved peace and contentment in a new church that we were completely happy with (and some new friendships too), but right now, there isn't. And, you might even think, as I have thought myself, that maybe the problem isn't the churches, maybe the problem is me or my heart? But, then, I visit my parents in North Louisiana and go to church with them, and their service is more along the lines of what we had at First West and I think, it can't be me then, because I don't feel "dead" when I'm there. So, I'm not really sure how to wrap up this post other than to just ask for prayers as we try to find a church home and prayers that I'll be able to make some good Godly friends.

Sorry to be such a party pooper with this post...I promise to be more upbeat tomorrow! :)
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Ok, let's just accept that it's a tad too late to do a blog recapping Christmas and move on, shall we?

A lot of people have blogs for the main purpose of having an online scrapbook that they periodically print out. That's not why I created this blog. I like to scrapbook the good ol' fashion way (although I've yet to get beyond Juliette's 1st year of life...should probably work on that!), but really I created this blog, first and foremost, to allow our friends and families peeks inside our every day (or every month, as the case has been lately) life, with Juliette mostly being the focus. Mostly, I just blog about the big stuff that I remember to take pictures of, but I often feel like I'm just replicating what I've already put on Facebook and just adding some commentary to it. SO, I want to shake things up a little bit and I'm challenging myself to blog more frequently, sometimes about the smaller stuff, sometimes about stuff that has nothing to do with Juliette, and to allow you to really "see" me! So, expect to see more here, and expect to see a wide range of topics...starting Monday (because I'm going out of town tomorrow and just decided to "shake things up"). 
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